How to Have An Affordable Wedding Without Breaking the Bank

How to Have An Affordable Wedding

Wondering how to have an affordable wedding on a tight budget? You’re not alone. Big-day expenses can skyrocket faster than you can say “I do.” Having an affordable wedding, though, is absolutely possible with the right strategies. In this guide, we’ll answer all your burning questions about saving money on your wedding.

We’ll take you from choosing a cheap (but charming) venue — all the way to saving money on a dj. You’ll learn how to cut costs all around, manage your guest list like a pro, and even feed your guests without going broke. In the end, you’ll learn to avoid all those sneaky expenses that drain your wallet. Grab a seat (maybe a bargain one from your local thrift store) and let’s dive into how to have a beautiful wedding on a budget without sacrificing the fun or your sanity.

How do I choose an affordable wedding venue?

Finding a budget-friendly wedding venue is the holy grail of affordable wedding planning. Start by thinking beyond the traditional banquet hall. Backyards, public parks, community centers, or even a cool restaurant can often be rented for a fraction of the cost of a dedicated wedding venue. If you have a generous friend or family member with a great yard or property, consider asking to use their space (just promise to clean up, or bribe them with cake). Many public parks or city-owned spaces require a permit that’s way cheaper than a private venue fee.

And don’t overlook non-traditional days and seasons: venues charge premium rates for Saturday nights in June, so try a Friday or Sunday wedding, or opt for an off-season date. According to wedding industry pros, booking a Friday or Sunday can save you thousands on venue fees (one expert notes some Sunday venue fees are $4,000 less than Saturday, with lower food and drink minimums too ).

Be flexible with your location

Besides timing, shop around and be flexible with location. A quaint barn an hour out of town or a local art gallery might cost way less than that fancy downtown ballroom. Some venues offer all-inclusive packages (covering tables, chairs, etc.) — compare those against renting a blank space and sourcing rentals yourself. If you do choose a non-traditional space like a backyard, you will need to factor in costs for things like tents, generators, or portable restrooms, but you still might come out ahead. The key is to prioritize what matters in a venue (ambiance, capacity, amenities) and let go of the rest.

Remember, the more your venue already looks great on its own, the less you’ll spend decorating it. An outdoor garden or a building with character means you won’t have to drown it in expensive décor. Finally, negotiate – many venues (especially smaller ones) might be willing to work with your budget if you ask nicely (and flash that “poor bride/groom” smile).

What are some budget-friendly wedding decor ideas?

When it comes to decor, the DIY route and a little creativity can save you a ton. Start by rethinking the standard pricey flower arrangements and elaborate centerpieces. Use items you already have or can borrow: maybe your aunt has a stash of mason jars, or your friend has rustic lanterns from their wedding.

Thrift stores, dollar stores, and online marketplaces (Facebook Marketplace, Craigslist) are gold mines for cheap décor. You can find candles, vases, string lights, and sometimes odd treasures like old windows or frames to use for signs. For example, LED fairy lights are an affordable way to add sparkle everywhere — a 12-pack of battery-operated fairy lights (like this set on Amazon) can transform tables, trees, or backdrops for under $20.

Some “outside-the-box” ideas for saving

Instead of expensive floral centerpieces, consider alternatives like candles, greenery, or single-stem flowers in bud vases. Greenery (garlands of eucalyptus or ivy) is often cheaper than blooms; you can get realistic faux greenery and mix it with a few real sprigs for effect. (Insider tip: those fake eucalyptus garlands? Total budget savers that look fab — and no one will notice they’re faux unless they start sniffing your decorations.)

Another trick: repurpose decor across your day. Ceremony arch flowers can double as sweetheart table decor later, for instance. If you have bridesmaids’ bouquets, plop them in vases as centerpieces for the reception.

Printing your own signage can also save a lot — design a welcome sign or seating chart on your computer and print it at Staples, then put it in a thrifted frame. For a snarky (yet practical) touch, make a sign that says “Trust us, we didn’t spend a fortune on this wedding.”

Embrace a minimalist or rustic style where less is more; not only is it trendy, it conveniently uses fewer items. DIY projects can be fun if you don’t overcommit yourself. Simple crafts like tying ribbons on chairs or creating a photo display of you two lovebirds cost very little. And if you’re not particularly crafty, enlist a friend who is (there’s always someone with a hot glue gun talent). The bottom line: you don’t need crystal chandeliers or $200 centerpieces to wow your guests. A little mood lighting (string lights, candles) and personal touches like photos or meaningful items will create an ambiance that’s beautiful without the high price tag.

How can I manage the guest list to save money?

Let’s be real: your guest list is the biggest factor in determining your wedding cost. Every single guest adds to your budget (meals, drinks, invitations, favors, space, etc.), so keeping the list in check is the fastest way to save money. Start by inviting only the people who truly matter to you and your fiancé. If you’re on the fence about someone (“Do I really have to invite my second cousin whom I last saw in 1999?”), you probably can cut them. It might feel harsh, but your future self (the one not drowning in wedding debt) will thank you.

In fact, one budgeting example showed that each additional wedding guest can cost around $85 per person when you factor in food, drinks, favors, and all the fixings . That means trimming just 10 guests could save you roughly $850 (and one less centerpiece to buy) . Think about that when your mom tries to sneak her entire book club onto the invite list.

The sensitive diplomacy of who to invite to your wedding

Of course, managing the guest list can be a political tightrope. Set some rules from the start to make cuts easier and more fair: e.g., “no coworkers, no third cousins, no plus-ones unless they’re long-term partners.” Communicate these rules to any well-meaning family members who are trying to add their own invitees.

It helps to start with a “must-have” list (immediate family and closest friends) and a secondary list. If your venue or budget maxes out, those secondary folks might not make the cut. And that’s okay! Most people understand weddings are expensive and won’t be offended if they aren’t invited (and if they are offended, just explain that feeding them would mean you couldn’t afford a honeymoon — guilt trip works wonders).

Another tip: consider a smaller ceremony and a larger casual party later. You can have an intimate ceremony with close family and friends, then throw a cheaper, laid-back after-party or backyard reception for a wider circle. This way you celebrate with everyone without paying for a 200-plate sit-down dinner. Remember, every guest you invite should be someone you truly want to share your day with — not someone you felt obligated to invite. When you look around on your wedding day, you won’t miss the random extras, promise. Keeping your guest list tight is the easiest way to keep your budget tight, too.

What are some affordable wedding reception and food ideas?

Food and drink for dozens (or hundreds) of people can easily gobble up your budget. But you can feed your guests well without taking out a second mortgage. One popular cost-cutter is opting to go buffet style for the reception or family style meal instead of a formal plated dinner. Buffets typically require fewer servers (lower labor cost) and let guests choose what they want. Plus, you can offer simpler dishes in bulk. Think hearty, crowd-pleasing foods like pasta, BBQ, or tacos rather than filet mignon. Some caterers charge less per head for buffets, though keep in mind you might need to order a bit extra food to ensure no one goes hungry.

If you really want to slash costs, consider DIY catering for a smaller wedding: perhaps a potluck (having each family bring a signature dish), or cooking some dishes yourselves if you have talented cooks in the family. Just be careful — taking on all the cooking can be stressful on the big day, so maybe focus on one aspect (like a dessert bar with homemade treats) instead of the entire meal unless you have a small, casual gathering.

Another idea is to hire a local small restaurant or food truck to cater; they often have lower rates than big wedding caterers and can serve fun fare like tacos, wood-fired pizza, or burgers. A food truck at your wedding is not only budget-friendly but also a cool experience for guests (late-night taco, anyone?).

Maybe skip the open bar

For the reception drinks, skip the full open bar if you need to save money. Alcohol can be one of the priciest parts of your catering bill. Instead, consider serving just beer and wine, and maybe one signature cocktail, rather than a full top-shelf bar. Trust us, your college buddies do not need unlimited Grey Goose on your dime.

If your venue or caterer allows it, buy your own alcohol in bulk from a liquor store (many offer discounts on cases) and hire a bartender to serve. This can be significantly cheaper than paying per drink or per person packages. You could also do a cash bar for hard liquor while beer and wine are free, if you’re comfortable with that (etiquette police might scowl, but hey, you’re on a budget).

Another pro tip: skip the champagne toast with poured glasses for everyone. Instead, just have the champagne available at the bar for those who want it. You’ll save around $10 per guest by not pre-filling flutes for all , and honestly, half the time those glasses sit untouched and go flat.

When it comes to dessert, a big fancy tiered wedding cake can cost an arm and a leg. Consider a smaller display cake for cutting, and serve guests from a sheet cake in the back (it’s the same taste for a fraction of the cost, and no one will know). Or go non-traditional: cupcakes, donuts, or a homemade dessert table can be fun and cheaper. Ultimately, prioritize food items that people will actually remember and enjoy, and feel free to cut the rest. A simple tasty meal beats an elaborate mediocre one any day, especially if it keeps your budget happy (and your guests full).

How can I save money on wedding photos and entertainment?

Capturing the memories and partying hard are important parts of a wedding — but you don’t need to spend a fortune to do it. Professional photography and entertainment can be shockingly pricey (the typical photographer averages $3,500–$6,500 , and a DJ or band can run another $2,000–$7,000 !). If those numbers made your eyes bulge, take a deep breath; there are budget options.

First, figure out what level of photography you really need. If having gorgeous photos is a top priority, by all means allocate funds for a skilled photographer, but you can book them for fewer hours to save money. For example, maybe hire a pro just for the ceremony and portraits, then have them leave after the first dance. You’ll get high-quality shots of the key moments and skip paying for five hours of dance floor pics.

For the reception, you can set up a DIY photo booth or a Polaroid station for candids. Place an instant camera (like a Fujifilm Instax) or some disposable cameras on tables and let guests snap away. It’s old-school fun and costs very little. Another tip: look for photography students or freelancers who are building their portfolio. They often charge much less than established wedding photographers. Just make sure to see some of their work beforehand and communicate your must-have shots.

Crowdsource your friends for entertainment options

As for entertainment, the budget-friendly move is usually hiring a DJ instead of a live band, as bands tend to be more expensive (and require feeding multiple band members). But you can cut costs even further: consider a DIY playlist and good sound system. If you have a friend who’s tech-savvy or has MC skills, you can rent speakers and a microphone, then play a curated playlist from your laptop or iPod. This can literally save you thousands. (Just be sure to test the sound setup in advance and maybe designate someone sober-ish to handle it during the party.)

If you crave the vibe of live music, look for local bands or musicians who aren’t primarily wedding pros — maybe a talented trio from a local college or an acoustic guitarist for the ceremony. They might charge less than traditional wedding bands. Also, shorten the timeline: you don’t necessarily need music going for 6 hours. If you cut the reception time a bit, you could pay the DJ for 3 hours instead of 5.

And don’t underestimate friends with talents: is your cousin an amateur photographer? Does your college buddy DJ on weekends for fun? Enlist them, often they’ll give you a mate’s rate (or a wedding gift in the form of their performance). Just be sure they’re reliable and won’t get too drunk to press play on the first dance song (snarky voice of experience here).

In the end, what makes a fun wedding isn’t how much you spent on the DJ or photographer — it’s the energy and love in the room. You can absolutely capture the moments and rock out on the dance floor on a budget.

What are some affordable ideas for cheap wedding reception favors and invitations?

Favors and invitations are those little extras that can add up more than you’d expect. The good news: you can totally trim costs on both without losing any wedding magic. Let’s start with wedding invitations. The average couple spends around $500 on wedding invitations and stationery , but you can cut that down significantly.

One obvious saver: go paperless or digital for things like save-the-dates or even the invites themselves. Services like Paperless Post or even a nicely formatted email (if your crowd is casual) cost very little or nothing. If you prefer physical invitations (grandma might insist on a paper invite to stick on the fridge), consider DIY invitation kits. You can buy printable invitation kits (like this print-at-home set of 50 invites) that come with blank cards and envelopes for much cheaper than having a custom invitation suite printed. Then you run them through your home printer or a local copy shop. It might cost you $50 instead of $500.

Also, simplify your design – skip the crazy multiple enclosures, ribbons, and metallic foils. A clean, single-card invite with an RSVP postcard (or better yet, direct guests to RSVP on a wedding website) will save on printing and postage. Speaking of postage, that can double your invite costs if you’re not careful. Standard size, lightweight cards are cheapest to mail – avoid oversized or odd-shaped invites that need extra postage. And do you really need RSVP cards with return envelopes? Nah, have people RSVP online or by phone and save yourself the stamps and hassle of mailed replies. (A bit snarky truth: half of them will text you their RSVP anyway.)

Do I really need to give out party favors at my wedding?

Now for wedding favors: This is an area where you have full permission to not go overboard, but also think outside the box. Once upon a time, every wedding had tchotchkes like monogrammed shot glasses or fancy favor boxes of macarons. These days, about half of couples are ditching favors altogether, and guess what? No one really misses them .

So first, decide if you even want to do favors. It’s perfectly okay to skip them or do a charity donation in lieu of trinkets. If you do like the idea of a small thank-you gift for guests, keep it simple and cheap. Edible favors are usually budget-friendly and a crowd-pleaser: think homemade cookies, a little bag of candy or popcorn, or a s’mores kit. You can DIY a lot of these at home.

Inexpensive wedding favor ideas

For example, buy bulk candy and some cute bags and you’ll spend maybe $0.50 per guest. Compare that to elaborate favors that might cost $5+ each (and often get left behind on tables anyway). If you want a more keepsake-type favor, there’s plenty of low-cost options. Tiny succulents, seed packets (“Let Love Grow” theme), or practical items like bottle openers or drink koozies can be bought in bulk for cheap. We found a 100-pack of vintage key bottle opener favors for around $30 (check out this set of 100 key bottle openers that comes with tags and ribbons). That’s like 30 cents a piece!

With favors, it’s the thought that counts, not the dollar value. A short thank-you note at each place setting can even take the place of a physical favor — people appreciate the sentiment and you save money and effort. And let’s be honest, your guests are there for the free food and fun, not a custom bar of soap with your wedding date on it. So don’t stress over favors. Do a token gesture or none at all. Your budget (and your sanity in those final days before the wedding) will thank you.

How do I have a low-cost wedding on a budget without overspending?

Ah, the million-dollar question (hopefully not literally a million). How do you keep all these wedding expenses under control? It starts with the B-word: Budget. Yeah, yeah, budgeting isn’t sexy or fun, but it’s your best friend when planning an affordable wedding.

Sit down with your partner before you spend a dime and figure out what you can truly afford and what your top priorities are. Is having an open bar non-negotiable, but you don’t care about fancy invitations? Allocate more to the booze and go cheap on the paper goods.

Are stunning photos a must but you could forego fresh flowers? Put money toward the photographer and opt for minimal florals. A key tip is to break down your budget by category (venue, catering, attire, etc.) and assign a maximum amount to each based on what’s most important to you. This helps you see the trade-offs clearly. And when you’re tempted to splurge on something, remind yourself which category it falls in and what you’d have to cut elsewhere to cover it.

As you plan, track every expense in a spreadsheet or a wedding budget app. It’s tedious, but it will shock you (in a good way) how those little things add up. A spreadsheet doesn’t lie — you’ll see exactly where your money is going and can adjust before it’s too late.

The unexpected budget buster: hidden costs

Another smart strategy: as you get quotes or shop for vendors, ask about hidden costs. Wedding budgets often blow up due to sneaky extras like service fees, taxes, gratuities, setup fees, etc. Get all costs in writing and factor them in. If a quote comes back too high, don’t be afraid to negotiate or seek a cheaper vendor. There is almost always a cheaper alternative or a way to scale down. Maybe you can’t afford the $3,000 photographer, but a $1,500 one will do a fine job. Perhaps a DJ quote is over budget – try a beginner DJ who charges half, or trim an hour off the reception time.

Also, build in a contingency fund of maybe 5-10% of your budget for those last-minute things you didn’t expect (because trust me, something will come up — even if it’s just extra bobby pins or an Uber home when you’re too tired to drive after the reception).

The simple wedding budget saver: manage everyone’s expectations

A big part of not overspending is managing expectations — yours and everyone else’s. It’s easy to get carried away thinking you need X, Y, and Z because it’s a wedding. But question every expense: “Will anyone notice if we don’t have this? Do we care deeply about this?” If the answer is no, skip it. No ice sculpture, no problem. No luxurious letterpress invitations, nobody will lose sleep. Stay focused on what truly matters: you’re marrying the love of your life. Everything else is icing on the (hopefully not too expensive) cake.

It’s absolutely possible to have a wonderful wedding on a tight budget if you plan carefully and resist the pressure to overspend. And if a vendor or product is outside your budget, it’s okay to say no. There’s a cheaper solution out there or a creative workaround. Finally, remember that going into debt for a wedding is not a great way to start married life. It’s perfectly fine to cut costs and be a bit snarky about the whole wedding industrial complex. When you look back, you’ll be proud that you threw a fantastic party that you could afford. And your bank account will still like you afterward.

Summary: Key Tips For Planning An Affordable Wedding

Planning a wedding on a budget might feel like juggling flaming torches, but these key tips will keep you on track without getting burned:

Prioritize What Matters

Spend on the must-haves that mean the most to you, and trim the rest. It’s your day — allocate your budget to reflect your values (not what wedding blogs insist you need).

Slash the Guest List

It’s simple math – fewer guests = less cost. Invite your VIPs and politely cut the extras. Your wallet will thank you (and you’ll actually get to talk to everyone you invite!).

Venue & Timing Tricks

Choose a non-traditional or low-cost venue (think backyard, park, community hall) and consider off-peak days or seasons for major savings . A Friday/Sunday or winter wedding can be just as magical for a lot less cash.

DIY & Save on Decor

Get crafty and resourceful with decorations. DIY where you can, borrow items, and use affordable touches like fairy lights, candles, and greenery instead of lavish florals. It creates a beautiful vibe without the hefty price tag.

Budget-Friendly Food & Drink

Opt for buffet or family-style catering or even casual food trucks/BBQ to save on catering costs. Limit the bar to beer and wine or a signature cocktail. Little tweaks (like skipping a champagne toast) can save big bucks .

Smart Attire Shopping

Shop secondhand, online, or off-the-rack for your wedding clothes. You can find stunning dresses for a fraction of boutique prices (yes, even on Amazon or at thrift stores). Don’t blow $500 on a veil when a $20 one looks just as good .

Cut Corners on Flowers

Use seasonal blooms, greenery, and even faux or dried flowers to cut floral costs. DIY your bouquets and centerpieces if possible – it’s easier than you think and can save you hundreds .

Frugal Photos & Entertainment

Hire vendors for fewer hours, seek up-and-coming talent, or DIY parts of it (like a Spotify playlist instead of a pro DJ). You can absolutely have great photos and a fun dance party without shelling out thousands .

Deals on Favors & Invites

Send digital invites or print your own to save on stationery . For favors, simple and edible (or none at all) is perfectly fine – guests care more about the cake and dancing than a monogrammed candle.

Stick to Your Budget Guns

Above all, set a realistic budget and track everything. Don’t be afraid to say no to extras that don’t fit. Remember, a wedding is one day – you’ve got a whole marriage ahead. It’s not worth starting it in debt for the sake of chair covers or designer confetti.

By focusing on what truly matters and getting a little creative (okay, and maybe a tad snarky with wedding “rules”), you can have an amazing wedding day that feels rich in love but is light on cost. Your affordable dream wedding is totally within reach – and it’s going to be one heck of a party! Cheers to saving money and celebrating in style. 

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Greg
I know, I know - the idea of planning a wedding can be overwhelming for a lot of guys, but trust me, it doesn't have to be an awful experience. I started writing these blogs because I wanted to challenge the stereotype that grooms are uninvolved and unenthusiastic about weddings. I want to show that grooms can be just as passionate and invested in the planning process as the bride. My goal is to provide grooms with the tools and inspiration they need to have a meaningful and enjoyable wedding experience. Whether it's tips on how to choose the perfect suit or ideas for personalized wedding favors, I want to empower grooms to take an active role in the planning process and make the wedding their own. So, if you're a groom-to-be and you're feeling a little lost or overwhelmed, don't worry. I've got your back. Let's make this the best day of your life, together."
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